Please do not take this the wrong way when i say this but…
“Do you know what the hell you are doing?”
If you are trying all the ways to get your ex back that you can possible think of then chances are you have already messed up BIG TIME!
Did you try these ways to get your ex back such as, calling your ex all the time, telling your ex that you will die without them, stalking them, telling them you will change, Talking to everyone they know about them, and etc…
If you did any of the above then all you did was make your self look
“UNBELIEVABLY STUPID and PATHETIC!”
If you already messed up big time do not worry about it because there is still hope. If you want to find out how to fix all the mistakes you have made and everything you need to know to get your ex back before they end up hating you forever then you need to read my free guide.
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I am going to give you some ways to get your ex back that are really amazing and you will see amazing results if you just apply one of these ways to get your ex back.
Over Coming The Panic And Resentment Stages
Right after the break up you and and your ex are in two “HORRIBLE STAGES” and if you and your ex can not escape these stages you will never be able to move on and have a normal relationship together again.
If you got your heart broken then you are in the panic stage and your ex “The One That Broke Your Heart” is in the resentment stage. While you are in the panic stage you are more likely to do and say things that you normally would not do such as beg for forgiveness, Tell your ex you will die without them, and appear to be extremely desperate. All of these things will push your ex further away.
Right now your ex is in the “Resentment Stage” that means your ex is resenting. So any thing you do or say is going to automatically push them further and further away. While your ex is in this stage they will not change there mind about anything. So anytime you ask your ex anything while they are in this stage they will just give you the same answer over and over again.
If you and your ex can “ESCAPE” these stages then there will be hope. The only way to get your ex back and get out of these stages is with some time apart. You and your ex need at least 30 days of limited contact so you have a chance to move on with your lives. If you and your ex keep talking back and forth after the break up you will never be able to get out of these stages.
Becoming A Brand New Person
What i am about to say is “EXTREMELY IMPORTANT” and if you can not apply this way to get your ex back you will most likely never get your ex back.
“Your ex does not want to date the same person!”
That’s right! Your Ex Does Not Want To Date
A proven way to get your ex back is to change your self. You See, your ex does not want to date the same person. You and your ex are not together for a reason.
So why do you think your ex would want to date you again? Your ex wants to date someone different, more attractive, and that is better in every way possible.
“So how do you over come this?”
You have to “COMPLETELY” change your self in every way you possible can. You have to change the way you look, the way you smell, and the way you act. Once you do this then your ex will view you as a new person. Once your ex views you has a better and different person then…
“Your ex will be willing to give you another chance!”
There are many things you can do to change your self such as get a gym membership, by different clothes, get a different hair cut, get your teeth whitened, and etc… What ever you can do to act better and look different will make your ex think differently of you.
Once you change your self your ex will have a new image of you and this will also help your ex forget about your mistake that you may have made and the break up the two of you had together. Remember that one of the best ways to get your ex back is to change yourself.
Taking Control Of The Break Up
This way to get your ex back is really powerful. Imagine if you could take control of this break up and have whatever out come you wanted.
“Do you know why your ex has control of you and the break up?”
If you think about it right now your ex has control of you. You are trying to figure out ways to get your ex back and your ex is trying to stay away from you. Your ex has control because your ex knows that you want them and your ex is using this to make you work even harder to get them back.
You see, people want what they cant have and right now you cant have your ex so you want your ex. Your ex “DOES NOT WANT YOU” because they know they can “HAVE YOU” when ever they feel like it.
So in order to take control of the break up you have to make it seem like you do not want your ex anymore.
“Show your ex that you do not want them and other people want you!”
So first thing you got to do is quit contacting your ex all the time and just let them be. If you leave your ex alone long enough your ex will be thinking…
“What happened to my ex, they stopped harassing me?”
This is one way to get your ex back by making them curious. Your ex know has a erg to figure out what you are up to. Now if your ex finds out that your life is “GREAT’ without them and your seeing other people then your ex will have “LOST CONTROL OF THE BREAK UP!”
Now your ex knows that they can not have you when ever they want. This makes them start to want you because like i said before people want what they cant have and when your ex sees you with the opposite sex you are “Persevered As More Value” making your ex want you even more!
“Use just one of these ways to get your ex back and you will see RESULTS!”
My question for you is…
“Would you like more ways to get your ex back and know ever step to get your ex back?”
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Edited: September 23rd, 2009