How To Make Your Ex Want You Back And Forgive All Your Mistakes For Good
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Edited: August 5th, 2009
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Edited: July 31st, 2009
How to get your ex back – Cant Get Ex Back
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If you did not get your ex back then you should at least be friends with your ex. You can not force someone to be with you. You are going to have to move on with your life.
You need to continue to take care of yourself. Just because your ex does not want to get back together does not mean you should let your self go and not care anymore. Always try to look and be your best. Someone may end up walking up to you and asking you out.
Continue To Meet New People
Your not going to find the love of your life by just sitting in your room. You need to get out there and meet people. Go out and have fun with your friends. If you continue to look and act your best you will meet someone while you are out and about. Dont harass your ex. You need to leave your ex alone. Give your ex more time to move on and then maybe sometime in the future you can get back together.
Avoid The Rebound Relationship
Do not get back into a rebound relationship. It is not good on you mentally. You will even most likely carry negative things from your past relationship into the rebound relationship. If you are going to date someone date them because you want to not because you need to. If you date someone because you need to the relationship will end as soon as you feel like you dont need them anymore. If you are with someone because you want to be then the relationship could end up lasting a very long time.
Before you decide to get into a serious relationship you need to take a month or 2 to spend by yourself. You need to take a vacation or do somethings to make yourself feel better. You do not always need to be with someone so take some time to be by yourself. Do not make any drastic decisions right now until you have had enough time to think about everything that has happened.
You need to make sure that you learn from all of this. I am sure that you and your ex both did things wrong to cause the break up. You need to learn from all thoughs mistakes so none of this happens again. If it does happen again at least apply everything you have learned to the next relationship.
Remember that every relationship and date that you experience brings you closer to what you are really looking for. You need to make sure that you learn something from every relationship and date that you have so you can keep on getting closer to finding what you are really looking for.
Now that you are done with your ex for now. You need to continue to learn about relationships and dating. The more you know about the opposite sex the more control you will have over who you want to meet and the out comes of any relationships that you have. So while you are single you need to continue to study the opposite sex.
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Edited: July 30th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Relationship Problems
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When you get back together you have to give your partner some space. You can not be with them all day every day. If you are together all the time you are not going to value your time together as much. If you dont give your partner space they may tell you that they want to take a break from this relationship so they can get some space. You do not want that to happen.
If your partner makes you feel a certain way never accuse them of making you feel like that. Dont say you make me feel like __. If you say you make me feel like __, this will put them on the defensive and it could create a big argument.
You wanna say
“I Feel Like, You __”
When you you say “I feel Like” this takes the pressure off them. They will become sympathetic and offensive. They will let you know that they did not intend to make you feel like that.
If you and your partner get into a big argument, try to crack a joke. Try to make them laugh so they dont take everything so serious. If your partner is yelling at you do not yell back. If you stay calm and keep your voice low then they will eventually become calm and lower their voice.
Forgive and Forget
If there is something that is bothering you. Something that you or your partner did. Do not keep it bottled up. Make sure you take care of it right away. If there is something that you are having a hard time forgiving. You have to forgive your partner for whatever it is. If you dont your relationship will never reach its full potential. You will not feel better about it until you forgive. After you forgive then you will feel better about what it is that you had a hard time forgiving. You will not feel better about it until you forgive. Im not saying to forget but you need to forgive.
Friends and Family
If your friends and family are trying to get involved in your relationship you need to make sure that you dont get them to involved. If they really dont like you being together try and talk to them about it. Let them know that you are happy with who you are with and they should be to.
What To Do Next
If both of you are not getting along and your partner does things to piss you off then maybe you should not be together right now. If your partner continuously does things to piss you off then you might want to end the relationship. If the relationship is going great then you and your partner need to read Michael Webbs book. It will really help you with your relationship and help you take it to the next level.
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Edited: July 30th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Back Together Again
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Now that you are back together you need to continue to work on your relationship. You need to keep improving on your self and keep taking care of your self and the relationship. If you stop trying and caring then your partner will do the same thing. If this happens you may end up breaking up again.
To keep this relationship together you and your partner need to have one day a week set a side for just the two of you. You need to have one day a week that you and your partner do something together that is special.
During the week you need to make sure you spend some time every day noticing your ex. You could give them a back message, hugs, kisses, Leave love notes, and spend some time asking them how their day was. Make sure you spend some time every day communicating with your ex in a way that shows that you value your relationship.
One of the best ways to strengthen your relationship is getting to know your partner a lot better. I mean think about it what do you really know about them. Maybe there is a lot of things that you do not know about them that you need to know and there are a lot of things about you that they need to know. If you and your partner can learn everything about each other it will make you connect on a hole nother level and it will really strengthen your relationship.
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Edited: July 30th, 2009
How to get your ex back – The Question
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You will ask your ex this question that i am about to give you. After you ask the question you will find out if your ex was planning on getting back together with you or if they just wanted to be friends. Before you ask this question you need to make sure you take your ex out on at least 3 emotionally charged dates.
When you ask this question make sure you ask it at the best time possible. Ask the question when you and your ex are having a good time. Ask it when you and your ex are alone and there are no distractions. Ask the question when your at your ex’s house or your house when your watching tv or relaxing.
The question is
“Didnt We Make A Great Couple”
After you ask the question wait for a response. Do not interrupt your ex while they are talking. Listen to what they have to say. If you get a positive response. Then continue to talk about what they said to you. If your ex has good things to say about your past relationship this will put them in a positive state of mind. Since they are thinking good things about you they should say yes if you ask them back out. If your ex does say good things you want to ask them out right then and there. Do Not Wait!
Say
“Dont you think its time that we get back together?”
If you dont get a positive response after you ask the question then dont freak out. Let it be. Do not ask them lots and lots of questions. Just be ok about it and dont show that it bothers you.
Just say
“Thats nice to know, I just wanted to know how you feel thats all”
If your ex does give you a positive response to the first question but then they tell you that they do not want to get back together let them know that your ok with their decision. The reason they do not want to get back together yet could be because they need more time. So just give them more time.
If your ex says no to your first question
“Didnt we make a great couple”
Then you may want to move on. You cant make your ex want to be with you. I would recommend that you go on dates with other people for now. If your ex says no then you should remain friends. If you stay friends then you could end up getting back together in the future.
If you are reading Micheal Webbs book “500 Love Making Tips and Secrets” then you need to make sure that you continue to use all the secrets from his book. If you are not reading his book yet you need to if you plan on having sex with your ex again or if you are back together and you are having sex.
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Edited: July 29th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Sex Advice For Men
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Men you need to have sex as soon as possible after the break up because it is very bonding for women. After women have sex again they will assume that you are back together.
It should be easier for you to get to sleep with them because women are more likely to sleep with someone they have slept with before. Since you and your ex have been talking you should have also built up a brand new image of your self that your ex finds more attractive.
Before you try to ask your ex to come over you need to make sure you look your best when you do and make sure your place is as clean as possible. When she walks into your place you want her to feel as comfortable as possible.
How To Ask Your Ex To Come Over
You dont want to just ask your ex to come over. You want to give her plausible deniability. You both now that if she comes over you and her could end up taking it a step further. If you give her plausible deniability she will be more likely to come over because she has a good reason to.
Say
“You should come over and check out these new cds i got, I know you love this singer/band. I also got some pictures from my vacation when i went to Los Vegas.”
When you say this you give her a good reason to come over. It also gives her plausible deniability so she has good reasons to come over. When you say this you need to say it as your walking to your car. If you say it while you are just standing there your going to give her more time to think of reason why she should not come over.
If your ex tells you not to get any ideas you need to reinforce plausible deniability.
say
“I just want you to come over to look at some cd’s, pictures, and then ill take you home.”
Then she should come back and say O.K that sounds good to me. Now she feels more comfortable coming over because you reinforced plausible deniability.
At Your House
When you get to your house you need to sit down with her. While your sitting next to her you will be gradually getting closer. If she shows any signs that she does not want you to be that close then you need to give her some space. It should be easy to get close because as your talking she is focused on what your saying and what your showing her.
When you sit down your legs and knees should be touching. If she is comfortable with this then you need to put the cds and pictures right in front of her then lean in. When you lean in closer your shoulders should also be touching. If she is comfortable with this then you can put your hand on her knee or your arm around her.
Moving In For The Kiss
By this time you should be really close to your ex. Your knees, legs, shoulders, should be touching and your hand should be on her knee or around her. After you are done talking about what it is you are talking about you want to look at her and maker her laugh. If you feel like your in the moment then go in for a kiss. If you dont make her laugh or you dont feel like you are in the moment then dont go in for the kiss. Just say its getting late and its time for me to you home.
If you do have sex again with your ex you need to make sure you make it a great experience. Like i said before women find sex very bonding. The more enjoyable it is for them the more bonding it will be. You should do and try things that she has never done before to make it even more exciting for her. You need to read Micheal Webbs book “500 Love Making Tips and Secrets” before you have sex again with your ex.
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Edited: July 29th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Sex Advice For Women
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Women do not sleep with your man till you have a STRONG commitment from him. If you sleep with a man before they commit then they will not value it as much and they may pretend like it never even happened. Men value what is rare and what they have to work for. So if you make them work for it they will value it so much more.ho
Psychological Advantages
1. He will respect you more
2. Think of you on a daily basis
3. He will be more likely to commit sooner to get what he wants.
You dont want to force him to commit you want to make him feel like its his idea. If you force him to commit then he may break up with you again when he realizes it was not his idea to commit. Dont tell him that you are waiting for a commitment because that will sound manipulative.
If your man wants to kiss you or have sex with you dont just say no. If you just say now he will feel like there is something wrong with him. If your man asks you to kiss him or have sex with him
Say
“I am done with casual sex.”
When you say this it shows that there is nothing wrong with him and it shows him that you have more value. He will not feel like there is something wrong with him. After you say your done with casual sex
He may say
“This is not casual sex.”
Then you come back and say
“It’s not, well what is it then.”
After you say this it puts him on the offensive. This could force him to commit because he really wants to kiss and have sex with you. He will realize that in order for him to get what he wants he will have to commit. If he commits it now became his idea, not yours, and now he will be more likely to stay with you for a long time.
If you do end up having sex with your man you want to make sure it is good. Especially since your just coming off of a break up. Try something different or something that he really likes. I recommend that you read 500 love making tips and secrets by Micheal Webb.
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Edited: July 28th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Emotionally Charged Dates
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These dates you will be taking your ex out on will not be your every day dates. These dates will be emotional charged, shared experience, emotional links, and stacking.
Emotionally Charged
This is something you do with someone that involves a lot of excitement. It is not something that you do every day. It would envolve a very special event.
Shared Experiences
It is a experiance that is shared between two people or a small group of people. It is something that no one else has in comen with these people and it is something they will remember for the rest of there lives.
Emotional Links
When you hang out with someone emotional links are formed. These links make you think of that person a certain way. By going on emotionally charged dates and having shared experiences it makes these emotional links easier to form.
Stacking Dates
This is when you change the environment more then once when you take someone out on a date. by doing this it makes this special date that much more special. A example of stacking dates would be to go roller blading, out to eat, and then to a concert. You could go roller blading for 1hr, then out to eat 1hr, then the concert 3hrs
Emotionally Charged Dates + Emotional Links + Shared Experience + Stacking Dates = A Brand New Image
Make sure you look your best on these dates. You want to plan these dates very well. You need to go on at least 3 of these special dates. You need to make sure that all the things you do when you stack the dates are things your ex likes. You want the last thing that you do on the day to be the most exciting. If you want to get the most out of these dates you need to learn more about Michael Webb.
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Edited: July 28th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Sex and Cheating
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Women Cheating
If you do not make your man feel admired and another women makes him feel admired he may end up cheating on you with her. You need to make him feel admired. You need to always look your best around him, try to impress him, and always show that you are truly into him.
If you cheated on your man you need to make him feel admired again. You need to show him he is still your king. If you cheat on your man he will feel small. He will feel like there is something wrong with him. You need to convince him that he is still your king
say
“That guy meant nothing to me, Your the man i want to be with, sex with him sucked and i didnt even enjoy it. I felt terrible afterward. Sex with you is great, you always rock my world. There is no man that i admire more then you.”
You need to make him believe that the man you cheated on him with was a loser in every way and it was a mistake. You need to boost your mans ego again and make him feel admired.
Men Cheating
You need to appreciate everything your women does for you. When she cooks, leaves love notes, washes your clothes, makes you lunch, and how good she looks. If you dont make her feel appreciated and some other man does she may cheat on you and may even leave you.
If you cheat on your women you need to let her know that you need her, want her, and appreciate her in every way possible.
Say
“I want to be with you. I dont want to be with her. I need you. I love how you do this and that for me and how you always look so good. I really do appreciate you. There is nothing wrong with you. I love everything you do and everything about you. I need and want to be with you.”
You need to make your women feel like you really do appreciate them. Show them that you want to be with them and you need them more then any other women. Then she may decide to stay with you.
Sex
The more reasons your ex has to be with you the more they will want to be with you. If your ex wants to kiss and have sex with you then dont give it to them. Let them know that in order to get all of you they have to choose to be with you. when they ask you for a kiss or sex
say
“I am done with casual SEX”
or
“I am done with casual Kissing”
Then this will make your ex realize that you do have value and in order for them to get what they want they will have to commit. They may tell you that this is not casual and i want to be with you.
If you are following The Magic Of Making Up you need to keep studying the system. I recommend that you read it 5 times. If you are not following it you should start. I will keep recommending it because it is only right for me to since TW Jackson has helped me out so much.
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Edited: July 28th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Dating Other People
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You need to go on dates. If you feel like you cant then that is more of a reason to go on dates. If you cant handle going on a date what makes you think that you can handle going on a date with your ex.
There are a lot of good reasons why you need to go on dates.
If you go on dates it will help you get over your ex. If you can keep your mind focused on someone else long enough it will give you time to get over your ex. If you stay focused on the present you will not think about the past. That is how you will get over the break up. You have to stay focused on the present and keep your mind occupied.
If you go on dates it gives you the practice you need with the opposite sex. Since the break up you may feel funny or nervous when you are around the opposite sex. If you try to hang out with your ex before you get any practice with the opposite sex you will not make a good impression on your ex. By you getting some time to hang out with the opposite sex it will make you feel comfortable again around them. So when you see your ex you will make a good impression since the break up.
If you go on dates you might end up really liking one of these people. By going on dates you may find out that you dont want your ex back because you are now interested in someone else. One of these people that you go on dates with could end up being a future partner. If you dont end up getting your ex back you will not be so disappointed because you know that you have back up dates.
If you are having a hard time asking someone out on a date then you should try online dating. Online dating is very easy because before you even see or have to talk to someone you have a chance to get to know them better. You can see pictures of them and go through there hole profile. You can chat with them for awhile and then if you like them you can take them out on a date. Date.com makes it easy for you to meet someone to take out for a date. You need to check out this site and its free so you have nothing to lose.
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Edited: July 24th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Ex Is Dating Someone Else
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If your ex is dating someone else it is a good thing. Dont FREAK OUT!. If your ex is willing to date someone again that means they are over the break up. Like i have said before the first step of getting back together is getting over the break up.
Your ex could be dating this person to find out if they still have feelings for you. This person that they are seeing could just be someone they want to see just to help them get over the break up. There is a good chance that if your ex is dating someone that it will not work out in the long run.
“Over 90% Of Rebound Relationship Do Not Work”
Rebound relationships do not work out most of the time because they do not really want to be with this person. They are just with them because they need to be with someone. If your ex is dating someone because they need them well once your ex does not need them no more they will not date them no more.
You have advantages that this new person does not have. You have history with your ex . This person does not. You and your ex have done and shared things together that this person has not. That is a very big advantage.
If you want to get your ex back when they are dating someone else you need to be supportive. If your supportive and stay a friend your ex is more likely to tell you about this person they are with. If your supportive when your ex is done with this person they are more likely to come back to you.
If your not supportive and you act jealous or desperate your ex may shut you out completely and never talk to you again. So you need to make sure you are supportive if your ex is dating someone and stay friends.
If you are following TW Jacksons system “The Magic Of Making Up” you need to study his system and continue to follow my free training course “Getting Love and Keeping It.”
If you are not following and studying The Magic Of Making Up you need to. It will help you get your ex back. If you really do want to your ex back you need to be fully prepared and have the best chance to get your ex back.
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Edited: July 24th, 2009
How to get your ex back – The Outings
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When you go on the this outing make sure you look your best. You need to make sure you “Break The Pattern” and you make the best “New First Impression.”
You need to go on 3 outings with your ex before you go on any dates. You only want to hang out with your ex once a week. Make sure you go on at least 3 outings before you go on any dates!!!
If you are tempted to kiss or have sex with your ex you must not! You need to save all that for the relationship. If you save kissing and sex for the relationship it gives your ex more reasons to want to get back into a relationship with you.
When you are on this outing you do not want to talk about the past relationship, the break up, feelings, and emotions. If your ex brings up the past just say
“I Know you may have some unresolved feelings,
“I KNOW”
“Right now is not the time to talk about it. We can talk about that in the future after me and you have had some more time. So lets just keep having a good time for right now.”
“OK”
If your ex wants to talk about the past or how they feel make sure when you reply to them that you sound sympathetic. You dont want them to feel like you dont care.
You and your ex have to go on at least 3 outings total before you go on any dates. You and your ex should not see each other more then once a week. You need to take this process as SLOW AS POSSIBLE! If you rush it you may push your ex away. So do not see your ex no more then once a week.
Every outing should be between 30min – 1hr long and that is it. If you keep it short and end the outing at the climax your ex will want to hang out with you again. At the end of the outing do not ask your ex to hang out again. Give your ex a chance to ask you out or contact you. You have already sent a letter, called your ex, and then set up the outing. You have to give your ex a chance to make a move.
At the end of the outing end it like you started it. End it with a smile on your face and be happy even if it goes bad. Give your ex a hug at the end if the outing went really good. If your ex does not ask you back out wait about 2 weeks for them to call you and ask you out. If your ex does not call you can give them a call and see if they would like to hang out again. If your ex does not answer then you can try to call 2 more times and only once a week. If your ex does not respond after 3 phone calls then they may be ignoring you and its time to move on.
If you need some extra help on this outing or your having a hard time coming up with ideas. You need to read Michael Webbs book “300 Creative dates.”
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Edited: July 24th, 2009
How to get your ex back – Calling Your Ex
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Before you call your ex make sure that you are over the break up and you feel like you can live without your ex. If you call your ex when your not over them you may sound nervous on the phone and that wont sound good at all.
Make sure you send the second chance letter before you talk to your ex. Give your ex some time to read the letter. Your ex should end up calling you when they get the letter. Wait 1-2 weeks after you send the letter to call your ex. If you call your ex before they read the letter the phone call will be way more difficult. So make sure you wait 1-2 weeks to call your ex after you send the letter.
If your ex calls you after they get the letter. You can talk to them for 1-2 minutes but dont ask them out on a outing yet. You dont want to talk about the letter or anything until you call them back a week later. If you just talk to your ex briefly after they call you they will be waiting for your phone call. This will make your ex think of you and wait for your phone call. Wait a week, Then call them again to ask them out on the outing.
When you talk to them on the phone only talk about every day stuff and that is it. When you do talk on the phone keep the conversation under 5 minutes. If you feel like you can talk longer then 5 minutes then you can ask your ex out on the outing if the conversation is going good.
When you ask your ex out on the outing just say
“I am glad everything is going good, i was wondering if you would like to go out for lunch or coffee next week for like 30min.”
if your ex sounds unsure or says maybe, giggle or laugh a little and say
“Its only lunch, its no big deal, it will only take maybe 30 min”
This should make your ex say yes to the outing. You will want to try and plan the outing 2 weeks after the phone call. You want to do this so you can talk to your ex one more time before you go on the outing. If you can do this then you can get your ex to think of you again before you actually meet up. Call them again one week after the phone call and one week before the outing.
You will want to say
“Hi, i was just calling to make sure that we are still going to meet up for lunch next week, Great, Well i look forward to seeing you next week, have a good day, bye”
IF your ex Says NO!
Say
“O.K Thats Fine. Maybe some other time, (say the reason for saying no) When your not busy. Well i got to go, Have a good day, Ill call you in a week or 2 to see how your doing. Bye”
If your ex says no do not get upset, Remain calm. Make sure you end the conversation on a positive not. If you end the conversation on a positive note then you can try to ask again in a week or two. Your ex might even call you back in a few days to change their mind.
Calling your ex for the first time after the break up can be very difficult. I have noticed that women find it more difficult to call their ex after the break up. It seems like most men do not have a problem calling their ex. So if you need extra help calling your ex i recommend that you read Mimi Tanners book “Calling Men” its a great book and it helps a lot with communication between you and your partner.
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Edited: July 23rd, 2009
How to get your ex back – Does your ex still care
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If your ex is showing lots of emotions since the break up it is a good sign that they care. If your ex is going out of their way to let you know that they are upset or bothered. Then they do care about you and your past relationship. If your ex did not care they would not go out of their way to let you know how they feel.
An easy way to be able to tell if your ex still cares about you is understanding love, hate, and indifference.
Love and hate are not opposites. Indifference is the opposite of love and hate because indifference is no emotions. Love and hate are both emotions.
The line between love and hate is a thin one. If your ex was telling you that they loved you a few weeks ago and now they are telling you they hate you. Well that is a very thin line and that would make it easy to get back on the love side.
If your ex is showing any emotions such as hate then they still care. If your ex is showing indifference “No Emotions” then it could be more difficult to get them back.
If you want to learn how to make your ex want you back, make your ex care about you, and make them do what you want them to do. Then you need to get The Magic Of Making Up and read the bonus guide that comes with it. The bonus guide that comes with it is called Mind Magic.
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Edited: July 22nd, 2009
