I Will Not Tell You!

IMPORTANT:

    Hey i wanted to let you know that what is being said below is not comming from my MOUTH! I do not take credit for anyone elses work. 

    Everytthing that is being said below is coming from TW Jackson. I needed to let you know that because it makes me feel better about my self and you know that i am not trying to be something i am not. I also needed to remind you that i can not give away or tell you TW Jackson Techniques.

"I Will Not Give Away His Secrets"

    His techniques are SACRED and i would never do that to him or anyone.  

    TW Jackson has great advice and what i did was copy and past this from his book The Magic Of  Making Up. I did that so you can see for your self how BRILLIANT  he is. 

He explains everything in great detail.

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This is called...

The Magic Of Making Up 2nd Chance Letter

    The “second chance” has a dual meaning.
The first meaning is that it is a “second chance” if you have already made a ton of mistakes in trying to get back with your ex - this is the bandage.

    The second meaning is simply a foot in the door for a “second chance” and gaining an opening back into the heart and mind of your ex.

How and When to Use The Magic Letter?

Here is a BIG secret!

    Don’t type the letter, don’t instant message portions of the letter, Don’t email it, you want to HANDWRITE the letter.
Sounds old school, but today a handwritten letter is out of the ordinary…and being “unusual” it WILL get read!

    The best time to use the letter is a few days after the break up, BEFORE any acts of desperation have taken place.

    The other time is “bandaging” some “dumb” things that might have been said or done after a break up. These are usually acts of desperation.

    Is there a time not to use it? Yes, it would be silly to send this letter to your ex if you are just rekindling an old relationship. It would just be weird and unproductive.

Why The Magic Letter Works

    The goal of the letter is simply to show that you are okay and fine with the break up. This creates a vacuum in their mind. It allows their mind to start to miss you and want you again.

    Now, notice I say ALLOWS. See, their mind can’t possibly even start to miss you or want you back…if consciously and/or subconsciously they know that they can just pick up the phone…snap their fingers…and poof your back.
Does that make sense?

    A few days ago I was sitting and working in my office and we had a horrible windstorm. Just horrible winds at over 50 MPH. Trees blew down. Power lines got knocked out. It is the dead of winter and suddenly all power goes out. Which, since I have electric heating and air, meant I was suddenly without heat.

Long story short…

    We were without electricity and without heat for 3 days. Let me tell you, I missed that electricity something terrible. Until that point, I hadn’t thought about my electricity except once a month to pay the usual bill. When the electricity finally came back on, it was like a Super Bowl celebration at my home. High fives and cheers rang out through the house.
So, in essence, we are going to “turn off the electricity” in your ex’s house.

Follow?

ThePsychological Factors Involved

1. Humans have a tendency to take things for granted

2. Humans will fight ten times harder to save from losing something…than to gain something.

3. Humans tend to want what they can’t have.

4. Humans tend to want even more…what is JUST out of their grasp.

    And we are going to sprinkle in a couple other elements…like curiosity and intrigue that make the letter even more effective.

 Magic Components & Guideline

    I am going to give you the actual example letter. At the same time, I want to talk about some of the elements inside so that you can change it around if you need to.

    Your overall goal is to demonstrate to your ex that you have accepted the break up. This is really important especially if you had made mistakes in the heat of the break up. Many men and women do. The important thing is to show a calmness and acceptance NOW.

    Apologize BRIEFLY…for acting desperate…or crazy…or for something hurtful you did. Make sure it is a SMALL THING. If you had an affair, don’t say…”Oh, by the way, I’m sorry for the affair.” And remember…KEEP IT BRIEF…no more than two or three sentences.

    The next part is where you want to pique their curiosity a little and plant a HAPPY IMAGE OF YOU in their head. A good way to do this is to mention something great, wonderful, or terrific has just happened to you. It paints a picture of you in their mind as being happy and fortunate. You can’t be happy and desperate at the same time. Right?

    Now, you may want to plan in advance, the “fortunate event”. It doesn’t have to be a big deal like winning the lottery. In fact, do NOT lie. FIND SOMETHING TO BE FORTUNATE ABOUT. Just don’t say what it is in the letter!
Are you following?

    The “magic” happens when your ex IMAGINES you as happy. And capable of being happy without them. 

Okay? 

    Your fortunate event could be as simple as running into your old best friend in high school.

    In the close…remind them that you BOTH need space, but that you would like to fill them in on your good luck or fortune.
So here’s a sample of The Magic 2nd chance letter you can use as a guideline.

The Magic 2nd Chance Letter

    The letter really does work magic when used with the Magic of Making Up system.

    In fact, don’t be surprised if they call or try to get in contact with you. BUT, do NOT return their call or advance.
Follow through with the whole system in The Magic Of Making Up.

    If they call several times or make several advances, just send them a short message and say…

”I got your message I will get in touch with you soon.” 

And leave it at that.

    As a parting note, I want to strongly warn you that you can’t just send them the letter and then expect everything to be fine.
You have to follow through with the rest of the Magic of Making Up system.

    This is an opening move. A great one, but is still just an opening.

Okay?

    Imagine if you paid to see the magician David Copperfield perform and David comes out on stage and does his first opening magic trick. Imagine he blows your mind with his very first magic act.

But then…

  He  turns around…bows and says “Good Night!”
You’d be like “What the __________?” and you’d be mad too because you are all primed for the rest of the show.
THAT is what it is like if you just give him/her the letter only and expect anything meaningful to happen from there.

Cool?

Don’t let that happen to you.

The Magic 2nd Chance Letter

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Like i have said before...

You ONLY HAVE ONE CHANCE to do this and you better make sure you do it right.

Yeah, you can go ahead and send a letter.

But...

Do you know exactly how to write it, do you have all the instructions on how to write it, what to do when your ex calls you, and what to do if your ex does not call you?

I wish you the best and you can get everything you need below

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YOU NEED TO SEND THE SECOND CHANCE LETTER!

RIGHT NOW!

 Thomas Trumen

ThomasTrumen@TheBestBreakUpAdvice.com