Comment from Fu
September 11, 2009 at 9:30 pm

thanks for the video. having a plan makes me feel better

Comment from wally
September 15, 2009 at 12:30 am

thanks for advice.Me and my wife have been together for twenty years.i was in a accident that made me a paraplegic and i gave up caring for the next 2 years.she walk out on me and the kids and we still have to see each other every day because of the kids.We are still being nice to each other but she is determined to be separated.she says she cares for me but doesnt love me any more.Am i wasting my time?thanks for your advice in advance

Comment from Gene
October 13, 2009 at 1:32 pm

My wife of 20 years wanted a divorce. We already sign the financial affidavit and she is very persistent of getting this divorce to be over bug very civil. We still live in the same house but different room. My question is do I have to move out for this method to work or can it be done while living under the same roof?

Comment from Thomas Trumen
October 16, 2009 at 11:26 am

No you do not have to move out. While you are living together you will want to keep things as smooth as possible. Do not ignore her completely, you will want to talk when the time comes. Do not try and resolve anything right now, saying i am sorry and etc… is just going to bring up another argument.

Here is a trick, Do something for her that she normally does “but does not like to” and just do it for her with out even saying anything. women love these type of surprises because it shows you “Appreciate Them” and there is nothing a women loves more then appreciation.

Comment from kathy
October 16, 2009 at 11:31 am

thanks for the video it feels comforting to have a plan and im very determined to follow it, eyes on the prize!!

Comment from Thomas Trumen
October 16, 2009 at 1:00 pm

Hi kathy

I am glad that you feel like you have a sense of direction know. Follow and do everything i tell you and you will see results!
good luck

Comment from Gintare
November 9, 2009 at 3:15 pm

Hi,

thank you for your video, i just have one question, should i write the letter now or after one month? thanx a lot ;]

Comment from Thomas Trumen
November 15, 2009 at 8:59 pm

It depends on how the relationship ended? Did it end fast and out of control or did it end on a mutual agreement?

If it ended out of control i would wait about 3 weeks after the break up. If it ended on good terms then i would wait around 1-2 weeks.

Comment from Sarah
December 2, 2009 at 11:42 am

I liked the video a lot. it made me think of things in a different way

Comment from nick
December 2, 2009 at 5:12 pm

thanks for this free guide it helps to know a process and have a plain to follow instead of acting on your broken heart.looking forward to speaking with you on the phone thanks Thomas Trumen

Comment from Thomas Trumen
December 3, 2009 at 7:54 am

Your Welcome for the FREE guide!

I put a lot of time into that guide. Everyone that has it really needs to take that free guide more SERIOUSLY! I recommend that you read it a few time because it covers a lot of information that you NEED TO KNOW so you can get your ex back.

Comment from Tish
December 9, 2009 at 11:10 pm

Thanks for the video, I’m going to try the Second Chance Letter in a week. One question: My ex moved out of town and I don’t have their address, but I have their email. Should I send the Second Chance Letter by email? Or should I use another method? Thanks.

Comment from David
December 22, 2009 at 6:06 pm

My girlfriend who we have lived as husband and wife for 9 years and have 3 kids together 8 6 and 5 just left after I confronted her and caught her in an affair with her boss. do the kids we have to be in contact but I have tried to keep it simple and just let the kids talk to her and did do the hey you know I think this is for the best technique after the first week of feeling crazy and trying to figure it all out. So I thank you so much for the guidance as it has helped me so much and look forward rto seeing more on how to really continue to work on getting her back.

Comment from Thomas Trumen
December 25, 2009 at 5:26 pm

I am sorry to hear about that David. Take it one step at a time and follow my advice. No relationship is impossible to save and i believe with the right plan in order we can get her back.

Comment from Nyla
December 29, 2009 at 12:08 pm

Hi,

Thanks for the all great advice. Just been through a break up and my ex and I left it on a mutual agreement that we would remain friends. It was strange how it ended we haven’t spoken in the last couple weeks as it it still very fresh. Not sure how to be friends with him. How do you get your ex back when it was a long distance relationship?

Comment from Thomas Trumen
December 29, 2009 at 3:56 pm

Hi Tish, Do not send the second chance letter by email. You will want to mail it. The hole idea of the letter is to surprise your ex and get their full attention when they are reading it. If you send it in a email its just going to be ANOTHER EMAIL to them. But when your ex recieves it in the mail as a hand written letter then they will be SHOCKED and be forced to read it!

Do not send it right after the break up wait about 2-3 weeks. If you send it after some time has past your ex will be more receptive to it do to the fact they have had some time to get over what has happened. If you send it right away your ex may disregard even reading it because they are still not over what happened.

The hole idea is to get your ex to call you after they are done reading the letter. If you wait a few weeks then send it in the MAIL then will see more results from this technique. Ill tell you when to send it as you follow my emails.

Comment from Thomas Trumen
December 29, 2009 at 4:09 pm

Hi Nyla, You are off on a good start. While you are friends you can not give him the feeling that you want him back. This will push him away. You need to continue to build up on that friendship.

Contact him once a week for about 5 10min. Then after your 3rd call you could then try to do something with him or plan something to do with him online. Such as play a game or something. Then after doing that a few times you could then set up a web cam chat with him. Keep in mind that you only do something with him once a week. after around 6 weeks of doing this you can ask him to meet up in person.

Comment from RS
December 31, 2009 at 5:42 pm

Dude thank you so much for your help. I am over the panic stage already and i haven’t contacted my ex over a week, which has been really hard. she has aimed a few times actually so i know she still cares. However I still haven’t wrote the second chance letter yet. Should I still write that?

Comment from Thomas Trumen
January 1, 2010 at 4:25 pm

Its to early for that. You want to wait 2-3 weeks after the break up to send it. If you send it to early it could just end up in the trash. Depending on how upset your ex still is do to the break up.

Comment from Andrea
January 25, 2010 at 2:02 pm

This video really help …im going to do what you said

Comment from Anthony
February 3, 2010 at 7:52 pm

hey man, thanks for all your help. I am going to try to take my ex out for the outing like you say in the video. Plan on getting the magic of making up when i get paid. thanks, looking forward to more videos.

Comment from Geoff
February 5, 2010 at 6:39 am

Hey man this is helping a lot with not panicing. I’m pretty calm about things now. The video gives me a better idea of what I’m up against. Thanks!

Comment from Thomas Trumen
February 10, 2010 at 7:29 pm

I do not mean to sound bossy but…YES! Do exactly what i tell you. It works! There is no question about it.

Comment from Isamar
February 10, 2010 at 10:15 pm

Hey Thomas. Thanks so much for the video. I wish I had known about this guide a long time ago. The Magic Of Making Up has really helped me so far. I will continue to follow your advice to cuz thats really helping also.

Comment from bryony
March 21, 2010 at 7:51 am

hi just looked at video going to take all your advice. im going to stop contacting him even though its going to be hard. he is answering my txts all calls anyway. really want him back. thanks

Comment from bryony
March 21, 2010 at 10:15 am

i meant he isnt answering my calls and txts lol.

Comment from LP
April 1, 2010 at 6:04 pm

I am having problems getting my ex to contact me. Im worried about contacting him as he seems to be showing little interest right now. Displayed anger a couple of weeks ago tho so I know there is still emotion there even if it isnt good at the min. Point is I have no clue what to do next. I have read all the guide several times over and Im out of strategies right now!

Comment from Jonathan
April 2, 2010 at 5:34 am

thanks i understand now i made the right choice. Since summer is comin up im speeeding up your process to summer During the summer ima try and get her back

Comment from Shandy Pranoto
April 6, 2010 at 5:06 pm

hi Thomas! i like your video so much, and will do it as what you said. but few problems here. she is in another asian country, and i am in europe. 2. her parents seemed dont like me, and i think one of the reason we broke up was parental thing, maybe… 3. she said she has no feeling anymore to me, like what you said in your free guide books, which you called it, indifference.
4. she has a new boyfriend, and just get together. i even talked to him at the phone when i want to talk about the break up things…

what do you think i should do? i think im pretty done and screwed up…

thanks a lot,
Shandy

Comment from Rodrig
April 6, 2010 at 5:43 pm

Dear Thomas,

thank you for the video it is helpful i’f learn allot allready

Comment from A.M.
April 7, 2010 at 9:13 am

I dont know Im clueless coz I already wasted 1 month after breakup chasing my ex with calls and personal show ups. can I still succeed?

Comment from Thomas Trumen
April 7, 2010 at 11:15 am

Yes! But only if you stop doing all thoughs things right now! You really need to study this. Its not easy and its a lot of work. You have to ask your self is it really worth it? It is going to take you at least 3 months to get back together.

The main reason why you want to leave your ex alone is to create curiosity. It makes your ex think were have you been. If you are used to having something all the time and then its all of suddenly gone! Then you began to think about it and even want it.

Your ex also has to get the impression that you do not want them no more. If your ex knows they can have you when they want the less they will try to contact you, talk to you, and want you back.

If your ex contacts you do not ignore them! You need to make sure you respond to your ex when THEY contact you. It is a chance for you to capitalize and you get more control. Keep conversations short and tell them you will get back to them. Never contact your ex before at least 30 days.

You have to give you chance to want you, miss you, and contact you. If your always in there FACE how are they able to miss you and etc?

Make sure you STUDY and STUDY my free guide! I dont mean to sound rude but i cant stand it when people send me emails before they even read it. Here is the link for the guide and make sure you save it on your desktop > Click Here For Free Guide

Hope this helps everyone!

Comment from Thomas Trumen
April 7, 2010 at 11:18 am

You called her new boyfriend? thats new..lol

If you acted fine then it could actually help you. If he delivers a positive message about you to her then yeah it helps. Makes her more comfortable with you knowing that you are ok with everything.

90% of the time rebounds do not work. The best thing to do is play it cool and be supportive of her decision. You want to create the lease amount of resistance as possible. So if anything happens she will be open to talking to you.

If things go bad guess who your ex comes back to IF you are on good terms? YOU!

Comment from Thomas Trumen
April 7, 2010 at 11:34 am

Of course hes not!

hes not going to if you just broke up. All your doing is pushing him further away. I am assuming you have not read my free guide yet. If you did you would know why he is not, when he will, and what to say when he does.

Comment from Thomas Trumen
April 7, 2010 at 11:36 am

Thats good he is but you cant keep initiating contact. If you keep doing this hes not going to try to contact you. The more you give the less he will give. the more you try the less he will try.

If he contacts you do not put him off. Make sure you reply to him. But keep it short sweet and simple. less then 5 minutes and let him know you will get back to him when you have time.

Comment from Pauline Tang
April 13, 2010 at 8:47 pm

Thanks Thomas, I liked your videos, very sincere and they make a lot of sense. I will follow it before I will get the MOMU from T.W

Best

Pauline

Comment from dreamer
April 17, 2010 at 5:04 pm

best video I have seen yet

Comment from safiuz
April 17, 2010 at 9:42 pm

tat really a nice video nd again givn me reasn,energy nd new hope to approach my love….

Comment from Gisela
April 20, 2010 at 9:17 am

Great video!!!!!!! Really helpful!