How to get your ex back – The Outings

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When you go on the this outing make sure you look your best. You need to make sure you “Break The Pattern” and you make the best “New First Impression.”

You need to go on 3 outings with your ex before you go on any dates. You only want to hang out with your ex once a week. Make sure you go on at least 3 outings before you go on any dates!!!

If you are tempted to kiss or have sex with your ex you must not! You need to save all that for the relationship. If you save kissing and sex for the relationship it gives your ex more reasons to want to get back into a relationship with you.

When you are on this outing you do not want to talk about the past relationship, the break up, feelings, and emotions. If your ex brings up the past just say

“I Know you may have some unresolved feelings,

“I KNOW”

“Right now is not the time to talk about it.  We can talk about that in the future after me and you have had some more time. So lets just keep having a good time for right now.”

“OK”

If your ex wants to talk about the past or how they feel make sure when you reply to them that you sound sympathetic. You dont want them to feel like you dont care.

You and your ex have to go on at least 3 outings total before you go on any dates. You and your ex should not see each other more then once a week. You need to take this process as SLOW AS POSSIBLE! If you rush it you may push your ex away. So do not see your ex no more then once a week.

Every outing should be between 30min – 1hr long and that is it. If you keep it short and end the outing at the climax your ex will want to hang out with you again.  At the end of the outing do not ask your ex to hang out again. Give your ex a chance to ask you out or contact you. You have already sent a letter, called your ex, and then set up the outing. You have to give your ex a chance to make a move.

At the end of the outing end it like you started it. End it with a smile on your face and be happy even if it goes bad. Give your ex a hug at the end if the outing went really good. If your ex does not ask you back out wait about 2 weeks for them to call you and ask you out. If your ex does not call you can give them a call and see if they would like to hang out again. If your ex does not answer then you can try to call 2 more times and only once a week. If your ex does not respond after 3 phone calls then they may be ignoring you and its time to move on.

If you need some extra help on this outing or your having a hard time coming up with ideas. You need to read Michael Webbs book “300 Creative dates.”

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Posted: July 24th, 2009 under Expert Thomas Email Support.
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Comments

Comment from Jenny
January 27, 2010 at 1:26 am

Thx for this video, Thomas! I follow your advice. We have been on “outings” and now I must say that we are dating. And flirting a little bit. He sais: wonderful evening. But I feel so unsure over how to progress.. Just continue dating or? Maybe I´m just his friend..:-(

Comment from Thomas Trumen
February 10, 2010 at 7:28 pm

Continue to be friends for right now. You need to build up your friendship again. As your building your new friendship your building a new base for a future relationship. the stronger that base is the more of a chance you will have to get back together and stay together this time.

Comment from Canta
September 15, 2010 at 11:52 pm

Thomas! I had my 1st outing. It went well. But my ex talked to my on yahoo mes. Ex said he doesn’t want to be my friend, as least for now. and he said sorry…I am confused! what is my ex thing? please give me some advises!!!

Comment from ThomasTrumen
September 16, 2010 at 7:07 am

Your ex is still in the resentment stage.

This means your ex is still not over what has happened. Until they are over the break up your ex will not be interested. Try again in 2 weeks, some times it takes people longer to move on. Your on the right track and things are going the way you want them just give it some more time.

Comment from Cory
January 21, 2011 at 8:50 am

i’m going on my first outing, she agreed to it instantly. i’m nervous but,,,
your videos help every morning

Comment from meme
March 25, 2011 at 11:17 pm

i have made a huge mistake i followed everything you said exccept at the end i went to his APT and we had sex after the 1st outing. i dont know what to do now??

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