How to get your ex back – Calling Your Ex

“Expert Thomas Advice” How to get your ex back and Break Up Advice

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Before you call your ex make sure that you are over the break up and you feel like you can live without your ex. If you call your ex when your not over them you may sound nervous on the phone and that wont sound good at all.

Make sure you send the second chance letter before you talk to your ex. Give your ex some time to read the letter. Your ex should end up calling you when they get the letter. Wait 1-2 weeks after you send the letter to call your ex. If you call your ex before they read the letter the phone call will be way more difficult. So make sure you wait 1-2 weeks to call your ex after you send the letter.

If your ex calls you after they get the letter. You can talk to them for 1-2 minutes  but dont ask them out on a outing yet. You dont want to talk about the letter or anything until you call them back a week later. If you just talk to your ex briefly after they call you they will be waiting for your phone call. This will make your ex think of you and wait for your phone call. Wait a week, Then call them again to ask them out on the outing.

When you talk to them on the phone only talk about every day stuff and that is it. When you do talk on the phone keep the conversation under 5 minutes. If you feel like you can talk longer then 5 minutes then you can ask your ex out on the outing if the conversation is going good.

When you ask your ex out on the outing just say

“I am glad everything is going good, i was wondering if you would like to go out for lunch or coffee next week for like 30min.”

if your ex sounds unsure or says maybe, giggle or laugh a little and say

“Its only lunch, its no big deal, it will only take maybe 30 min”

This should make your ex say yes to the outing. You will want to try and plan the outing 2 weeks after the phone call. You want to do this so you can talk to your ex one more time before you go on the outing.  If you can do this then you can get your ex to think of you again before you actually meet up. Call them again one week after the phone call and one week before the outing.

You will want to say

“Hi, i was just calling to make sure that we are still going to meet up for lunch next week, Great, Well  i look forward to seeing you next week, have a good day, bye”

IF your ex Says NO!

Say

“O.K Thats Fine. Maybe some other time, (say the reason for saying no) When your not busy. Well i got to go, Have a good day, Ill call you in a week or 2 to see how your doing. Bye”

If your ex says no do not get upset, Remain calm. Make sure you end the conversation on a positive not. If you end the conversation on a positive note then you can try to ask again in  a week or two. Your ex might even call you back in a few days to change their mind.

Calling your ex for the first time after the break up can be very difficult. I have noticed that women find it more difficult to call their ex after the break up. It seems like most men do not have a problem calling their ex. So if you need extra help calling your ex i recommend that you read Mimi Tanners book “Calling Men” its a great book and it helps a lot with communication between you and your partner.

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Related posts:

  1. How to get your ex back – The Second Chance Letter
  2. How to get your ex back – The Outings
  3. The Second Chance Letter – P.S I Love You
  4. How to get your ex back – Taking A Break
  5. How To Make Your Ex Fall In Love With You Again
  6. How to get your ex back – Communication Mistakes
  7. Ways To Get Your Ex Wife Back Fast And For Good
  8. Steps To Get Your Ex Back Without Looking Desperate and Pathetic!
  9. How To Make Your Ex Talk To You Again After They X You Out Of Their Life!
  10. How To Tell If Your Ex Wants You Back After A Break Up

Posted: July 23rd, 2009 under Expert Thomas Email Support.
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Comments

Comment from pacpa
October 12, 2009 at 1:55 am

It’s seems great i think i must do this.

Thanks
With Regards
pacpa

Comment from Thomas Trumen
October 16, 2009 at 1:01 pm

Make sure that when you call Pacpa that you keep the conversation short and to the point. Preferably under 5 minutes.

Comment from Lauren
November 27, 2009 at 3:32 pm

I want to try calling him since after the breakup we were able to talk, but recently things have happened. I’m not sure what to do now.

Comment from Thomas Trumen
November 27, 2009 at 11:54 pm

You have to give me more information. You did not tell me what happened, or what you said to each other when you were able to talk after the break up. What has recently happened? If you want me to give you advice then i need to know more.

Comment from Jim
September 15, 2010 at 5:29 pm

Hi Thomas, With regards to the call, what if suggesting the day or time for 30 minutes is not suitable for her? Do I suggest another time that is suitable or do I let her decide?

Thanks.. =)

Comment from ThomasTrumen
September 15, 2010 at 7:53 pm

Yes, suggest another time for her. You want to remain in control and be the one asking the questions.

PLEASE! Leave a comment. I would like to know what you think and get your opinion.THANKS!







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