Comment from Lauren
January 14, 2010 at 7:58 pm

I think writing out all the positives and negatives are a great thing to do. I did that (I THINK) the DAY he broke my heart. That was my way “rationalizing” why we should stay together. Though I didn’t share it with him when I was in my bargaining stage, I just bogged him down with questions in search for the real reason why he wanted to end it. He is an honest guy which makes this even harder due to the reason he ended it. I realized that i have more positives then negatives so i will continue to try and get him back.

Comment from Juli scheels
February 1, 2010 at 3:09 pm

GOOD NEWS! ever since we talked on the phone thomas matt has started to talk to me again. He tried to kiss me and i told him about how i am not interested in casual kissing like you said. then he told me he wanted to eventually get back together. not only that but he likes my hair more when its not blonde. He things the brown contacts ar a little much thoguh.

Thanks so much

juli scheels

Comment from Thomas Trumen
March 18, 2010 at 6:01 pm

It really helps writing everything down. It becomes real when you actually see it on paper. Just thinking about it makes it a fantasy.

Its important to really take this video seriously because before you continue you have to make sure this is something that you really want. Make sure it makes sense to want your ex back and if it does continue.

Comment from jj
April 2, 2010 at 3:29 am

This really helped me make sense of me and my ex. really appreciate this. Great video

Comment from Andreé
June 6, 2010 at 3:07 pm

I have just read it as Boothman has written, I have it in the audiobook and it is also really good. but should read the other recommending booking required soon.

Comment from Amanda
August 19, 2010 at 12:26 am

I agree with you when you said about writing it down because if not, it is just a fantasy. Also, if it is really worth getting your Ex back. He has a horrible mind set, and some good news.

He called me, and I watched your video about calling you ex. How to alter their “no” into a “yes”. I was able to do that because of you!! Despite I don’t want him back because he is just horrible, and a miserable human being. I wanted to try your method if it can be possible, and IT WAS, AND WE ARE GOING ON OUR FIRST OUTING NEXT WEEK:)!!!

YOU REALLY HELPED. DESPITE AS WE DISCUSSED THAT IT WOULD BE A POOR CHOICE TO GET BACK WITH HIM SINCE HE HAS A BAD MIND SET. But, in a way I sae how much he still hates me, and there is a lot of emotion. I had fun on my date as well last weekend.

THANK YOU THOMAS:)!!

Comment from PKK
January 2, 2011 at 4:18 am

This video is great. My ex is acting indifferent but I hope he can overcome this phase. I am not sure if I should send the 2nd chance letter. Hope you can offer me guidance. Thanks..

Comment from Lena
April 1, 2011 at 4:00 pm

I love the books Thomas recommended in this video. I read one of them and loved it and I’m reading the second one now. They are both a great help and contain many valuable lessons for starting up communication with your ex. This is an amazing video and it definitely helped me clarify a lot of my questions.

Although my relationship with my ex has gotten extremely complicated after the break up, and I am in the beginning of the no contact period right now, I have developed a great deal of emotional control because of Thomas’s videos. Thank You Thomas!! Your videos have been a ton of help!

P.S. If you really want your ex back, then you must take action, because if you don’t, nothing will ever go your way.