Communication Mistakes and Breaking The Pattern
Make sure you take notes on everything i said in the video. I know it was a long video but there was a lot that i wanted to cover. It is extremely important that you do everything i tell you to do. If you want to get your ex back and maybe even get engaged eventually like i did then its important you do all these things.
Breaking the pattern is extremely important. Like i have said before your ex does not want to date the same person and that means you have to COMPLETELY CHANGE yourself. If you dont then your ex will never take you back! Does this make sense? Think about it, you dont forgive someone or move on for something until you have noticed a change or you have moved on.
I am not saying that you go to the extreme here but what i am saying is you need to make it noticable that you are trying to change. Not only will this make your ex forget about the break up and the past but it will also make your ex really attracted to you.
It will make your want to know what is going on in your life to because you have had such a dramatic change. All of these things will MAKE YOUR EX pursue you!
I take this stuff very serious as you can tell. I know what is possible because i have once been were you are at right now.
I know what its like not knowing what the hell is going on. I know what it is like waking up feeling all alone because you truly care but no one else does. One of the worse things about the break up is not knowing what to do and the feeling that your ex is slowly drifting further and further away.
I dont have all the anwers but i have most of them. I cant promise you that you will get your ex back. What i can promise you is that if you DO EXACTLY WHAT I TELL YOU then you will know exactly what to do to make this happen!
If you are not serious about getting your ex back then i recommend you just move on because its going to just be a waist of time for me and you. If you are serious about this then you BETTER CHECK YOUR EMAIL BOX every day of the week.
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Posted: May 2nd, 2009 under Expert Thomas Email Support.
Tags: How to get your ex back, How to get your ex boyfriend back, How to get your ex girlfriend back, the best break up advice
Comments
Comment from Juli Scheels
April 1, 2010 at 5:41 pm
this really helped thomas. i made sure i never make any of these mistakes again. love the vids! goen to focus on breaking the pattern. should i cut my hair short. I have blond hair and blue eyes. should i die my hair to something other then blond and maybe get contacts. is that to much? know i have already asked but do you think we could talk on the phone. haveing a really hard time getting over matt.
Thanks thomas, Juli Scheels
Comment from Kathy
February 7, 2012 at 11:05 am
This is all starting to make a lot of sense now. This is really helping me get in the right direction. im going to get my ex back!
Comment from Andreé
May 23, 2010 at 3:25 pm
Thank you this mens much to me:)
This will be intresting
Comment from Casey
May 24, 2010 at 5:45 pm
When ever I get a video or any kind of e-mail from you, I make sure I read it right then and there! What I found most helpful was why rebound relationships don’t work. Because my ex got into another relationship two weeks after we broke up. So looks like your right! Thank you, keep it up, I can’t wait to hear from you with more advice!
Comment from ThomasTrumen
May 25, 2010 at 3:03 pm
Your welcome Casey!
I really try my best to help you out and everyone else.
Thanks for the comment is makes everything i am doing worth it!
Comment from Shelly
May 27, 2010 at 12:25 pm
I cannot tell you how much I appreciate your videos. Reading the guide and MOMU is good but your videos break it all down and explain it even more. I have to admit I get excited when I see you have sent me something and kinda pout when there isnt anything…so then I go and rewatch the old ones! It keeps me on track and motivated. Thank you Thomas..TW’s book is great but you put it all together for me, his book wouldnt work nearly as well without you.
Comment from ThomasTrumen
May 27, 2010 at 2:42 pm
Hi Shelly
I am glad that you are seeing success the magic of making up. As i have said before that if you follow my advice and read the magic of making up
you will ever everything you need to get your ex back.
Thanks for letting me know you like the videos.
Comment from geoff
June 22, 2010 at 1:56 pm
thank you so much for this video and all your help mate and thank you t dub too for your amazing book. . . im still in no contactct period and struggling like hell with losing my girl but you give me hope! thank you
Comment from geoff
June 22, 2010 at 2:07 pm
p.s i also want to say that as amazing and helpfull as majic of making is, “you do! make it all work ” and youre vids and e mails are invaluable to me ! i only pray its not too late for me as im a week into no contact but after 2 months since break up as she was my world..
Comment from frederick
July 19, 2010 at 5:26 pm
i waited four weeks to contact my ex.i asked her how she was doing and she seemed pretty dry seeing that she didnt reciprocate the question and she didnt respond to the last message that i sent her.is her resentment towards me shows that she still cares for me because i feel if she was truly happy and moved on she wouldnt be dry right?
Comment from ThomasTrumen
July 20, 2010 at 10:34 am
I believe you are right. Depending on how bad the break up was it could take longer for your ex to get over it and move on. It could take 1month or it could take a couple months. I would give her another month and during this time she might get back to you. If she does not then give her a call again.
Comment from Anonymous
July 22, 2010 at 1:26 pm
What about Facebook? Do you delete them from facebook to ensure the breaking the pattern?
Comment from ThomasTrumen
July 22, 2010 at 7:22 pm
No!
You just want to be casually about everything. Doing that just shows that you have a problem with the break up and that will turn your ex off.
Comment from Amanda
July 25, 2010 at 12:45 am
Wow!! AMAZING VIDEO!!
This was EXACTLY what I needed to hear, and wrote a tons of notes about your video! I truly love how you are so dedicated, and so determined to help those who were in the same stage you were in before.
It does suck, and I can so agree that no body cares what you are going through. They are just happy that it’s over – but, they have no idea how it feels like to be so broken, and miss someone even though they hurt you – there was love involved. No one understands. Zero.
Your video was so helpful, at least me it was! I am so impressed by your knowledge, and your concept of this process. It was much harder than I ever though it could be. However, I am seeing results – I can’t thank you enough!!!
Comment from Adriana
August 6, 2010 at 2:53 pm
Wow this video was just brilliant! I really learned alot.
For example, how changing can really be super effective.
Thanks so much for making this video because it was very eye opening! There is much that i have learned!
Just make sure to keep these brilliant videos coming. They really do help! I’m starting to see some results, and its all thanks to you!
best regards!
Comment from Peter
August 23, 2010 at 4:38 pm
Hi Thomas – this is amazing advice. I’m going to follow every word. I going to study everything you recommended. Thanks for being such a great human being and help others when they are most alone. Thanks mate.
Comment from ThomasTrumen
August 25, 2010 at 9:12 am
Hi Peter!
Thanks a lot for the compliment, it means a lot to me
Comment from Daniel
September 22, 2010 at 8:55 pm
This video is awesome, but honestly speaking, it needs a lot of time to break the pattern, and of course the most important thing is the courage to face ex in nonchalant while they get to know that we’ve changed at the same time, this is not an easy task to do it, it definitely takes a lot of time.
Comment from ThomasTrumen
September 23, 2010 at 12:09 am
Yes!
I agree with you its not easy and it does take time. Its never easy to change but once its done it makes everything easy. Its a can deterimine if you get your ex back or not. This needs more attention then everything else i send you. Its a very big deal!
Comment from surbhi
November 17, 2010 at 5:12 am
i think this video is really awesome.its really helpful.i broke up 2 weeks earlier with my ex and from then i m following your advices.i dont know whether my efforts will workout or not but now i can feel difference in me because of the no contact period.i find myself more relaxed and calm now.i hope everthing goes out good and result comes out be best.i got most of my answers watching this video.now things are getting clear that what exactly i have to do.
thanks for your videos.i really appreciate what you are doing.In todays time nobody cares about somebody else,their feelings ,their emotions,nothing.i really think you are doing a wonderful job.keep sending videos like this.
take care
Comment from julio
January 22, 2011 at 4:23 am
very nice advice……..it is really really work on me……….you are a nice guy…we ever have ….
what a wonderful ideas, tips and strategies….
thanks.I will use it everything you said………………julio
Comment from xxx
February 13, 2011 at 3:04 pm
hy thomas,
i have watched your closet videos lots everytime i want to text or feel weak which is alot lol…espically as its valentine tomorrow so here i am again tonight watching it…..nearl 15 days not long togo……
Comment from Danny
August 14, 2011 at 4:17 pm
Good stuff !!!!

Comment from andres
March 13, 2010 at 5:11 am
Thanks for the videos thomas. It’s good advice and very logic. You are becoming better every time.
Thanks again.