Comment from Juli Scheels
January 2, 2010 at 2:35 am

this really helps thomas. I Just CANT GET OVER Matt. thats the hard part. he left me because he said i cared about my career more then him. what do i do about this? really want him back. could we talk on the phone sometime? really need help getting over him. cant sleep at night. please help

Juli Scheels

Comment from Gisela
January 5, 2010 at 5:16 pm

Great video!!!!!!! Really helpful!

Comment from Pauline Tang
January 8, 2010 at 3:15 pm

Thanks Thomas, I liked your videos, very sincere and they make a lot of sense. I will follow it1 I will get the MOMU from T.W

Best

Pauline

Comment from Isamar
February 15, 2010 at 3:07 pm

Hey Thomas. Thanks so much for the video. I wish I had known about this guide a long time ago. The Magic Of Making Up has really helped me so far. I will continue to follow your advice to cuz thats really helping also.

Comment from Jonathan
March 4, 2010 at 10:15 am

thanks i understand now i made the right choice. Since summer is comin up im speeeding up your process to summer During the summer ima try and get her back. ill email you after i get tw jacksons system

Comment from Kelley
March 5, 2010 at 5:14 pm

Thanks for clearing up the No Contact if children are involved. I now know to only accept contact concerning my child and to keep my replies completely about my child and nothing else. Thanks

Comment from Rodrig
April 1, 2010 at 7:19 pm

thank you for the video it is helpful i’f learn allot allready
i wont to get magic of making up

Comment from Thomas Trumen
April 8, 2010 at 3:00 pm

No you do not have to move out. While you are living together you will want to keep things as smooth as possible. Do not ignore her completely, you will want to talk when the time comes. Do not try and resolve anything right now, saying i am sorry and etc… is just going to bring up another argument.

Here is a trick, Do something for her that she normally does “but does not like to” and just do it for her with out even saying anything. women love these type of surprises because it shows you “Appreciate Them” and there is nothing a women loves more then appreciation.

Comment from mario
April 9, 2010 at 3:07 pm

Im starting the process now. Thanks for the advice. Its hard because she aims me from time to time. but i am going to try my best to follow this process.

Comment from kathy
May 1, 2010 at 2:01 pm

thanks for the video it feels comforting to have a plan and im very determined to follow it, eyes on the prize!!

Comment from Thomas Trumen
May 9, 2010 at 2:50 pm

Your Welcome for the FREE guide!

I put a lot of time into that guide. Everyone that has it really needs to take that free guide more SERIOUSLY! I recommend that you read it a few time because it covers a lot of information that you NEED TO KNOW so you can get your ex back.

Please read the free guide and study it before you start sending me lots and lots of emails. If you just ask me questions in your emails and keep them short there is more of a chance i will respond.

I will eventually cover everything in the emails!

Comment from RS
May 9, 2010 at 3:05 pm

Dude thank you so much for your help. I am over the panic stage already and i haven’t contacted my ex over a week, which has been really hard. she has aimed a few times actually so i know she still cares. However I still haven’t wrote the second chance letter yet. ill wait just like it says in the magic of making up.

Your Great

Sincerely
Ray

Comment from Andrea
May 9, 2010 at 3:05 pm

This video really help …im going to do what you said

would be lost with out you

thanks!

Comment from Geoff
May 9, 2010 at 3:06 pm

Hey man this is helping a lot with not panicing. I’m pretty calm about things now. The video gives me a better idea of what I’m up against. Thanks!

GS

Comment from Juli scheels
May 9, 2010 at 5:37 pm

Thomas could we talk on the phone. I really could use help getting matt back. I know he still loves me. Could you coach me. I know you might not do this but could you make a exception. it would mean a lot. Could you just make one exception.

Please let me know

Juli Scheels

Comment from Anthony
May 9, 2010 at 8:06 pm

hey man, thanks for all your help. I am going to try to take my ex out for the outing like you say in the video. Plan on getting the magic of making up when i get paid. thanks, looking forward to more videos.

Comment from HH
May 12, 2010 at 2:59 pm

Thomas,

I broke up with my girlfriend 3 times and then finally got things straight and wanted to be with her and only her. She pulled away and asked for space. Four days after the break up I sent her a letter but it was pretty long. I didn’t ask to get her back only explained some things. I was a bad boyfriend…Should I still send the second chance letter?

HH

Comment from ThomasTrumen
May 12, 2010 at 3:02 pm

You never want to send the second chance letter right after a break up. If you send it before your ex gets some time to get over the break up then the moment they see your name they will just through it away.

You never send the second chance any earlier the 2-3 weeks after the break up. I will be sending you a video in a week or so that tells you more about the second chance letter. So wait for that video!

Comment from Pauline Tang
May 15, 2010 at 10:30 pm

Hey Thomas

Guess what, he CALLED tonight at 5:55pm on Saturday night, yayyyyy. I talked for a bit about 15 to 20′, sorry couldn’t help bit but I ended the call first and asked him if he could meet me for coffee or lunch next week and he said it would be nice..another yayyy. I guess he didn’t date anyone since we stopped talking ( 3 months). I will see him next week and I will take it slow as first date, and let him comes to me… ( his idea).

I take it as he still has feelings for me, yeah?, I will make a very sincere apology for hurting his ego. I was bad

Thank you so much for being here and encourage us:-). I’m very happy tonight

Pauline

Comment from Thomas Trumen
May 16, 2010 at 5:45 pm

Thats a great idea!

If anyone else thinks that is a good idea let me know. As of right now i do get a commission when you
buy the magic of making up through me. If you plan on getting the system i would appreciate it
if you got it from me

It really is great and i highly recommend it!

Good Luck Everyone!

Comment from Pauline Tang
May 16, 2010 at 6:38 pm

Hey Thomas.

I really appreciate what you done for us in creating this site with all the helpful tips, video and great advices to get our lovers back. It works Thomas, especially the no contact right after the break up is the MUST do to give both parties time to think it over. After curtain time, if we don’t feel the need wanting the see the other person again then we know time to move on, if we do then we will be on the next step to get them back

I have a great idea that what we can show you how much we appreciate your site in return your favor, since you have contributed your time/energy and money to build this site, You should have a section where we can contribute some financially for you to run this site if it’s legal and I’m sure it is.

When I venting in here I feel be heard and felt relief and I don’t have to send my stupid emails/ processing that * bastard* my dying love LOL

Thanks again Thomas

Comment from MP
June 1, 2010 at 7:34 am

Hi Thomas,
my ex broke up with my because he said he found someone who appreciates him more. he keeps telling me that even though he loves this person his all his heart, he can’t let me go and he will never come back to me eithr. we have a house together so we are forced to live together. i want him back so badly. what shd i do?

Comment from ThomasTrumen
June 1, 2010 at 10:50 pm

Your at a advantage right now then most people.

You live with him!

Its simple, hes saying you do not appreciate him. What that really means is you stopped admiring him. You need to start showing him that you do and give him sincere compliments to do this. You could buy him something that he could were to help approve his appearance and this will make him think you admire him. Thats one example.

As your living together just make sure you do not give him any extra benefits. You need to give him all the reasons you can to want to commit.

Comment from Andy
June 8, 2010 at 12:08 pm

I have to say this is an amazing video, a great plan and i will follow every step!!!! :]

Comment from jane
June 8, 2010 at 1:51 pm

great to get some free advice.I ve been trawling throught the net for some for ages but all lead to buying a book. I wish i d taken this advice 6 months ago.I ve been in contact with my ex since and its going nowhere.Today is the first day of my new life -no contact at all.I feel liberated!

Comment from ThomasTrumen
June 8, 2010 at 4:23 pm

Hi Jane

Yes!

It can be really hard to find any good advice online for this topic for free. As you can see everything i share with you and everyone else is not found anywhere else online, as i know of…lol

Thanks for giving me the great feed back i really appreciate it! Its not easy doing all this and every time you and anyone else posts a comment it…

MAKES MY DAY !!!!!!!

Thanks for taking the time for leaving great comments. Not only does it inspire me but it also inspires everyone else!!!

Comment from Ice
June 14, 2010 at 3:02 am

Thank you so much , Thomas . i did the no contact thing for about a month now , and he still haven’t called me yet . after we broke up , he already found another girl and now started dating . my friends helped me delete and block him . so i guess i don’t have a chance right now huh? because he told me that he still loves me as a friend … but i’m looking forward to all the advice you give , it makes me relax and hoping for that day to come. even if it’s impossible , i believe your advice can make me a better person. thank you .

Comment from Ashley
June 20, 2010 at 7:43 am

Everyday I wake up feeling like crap, but every time I listen to you or TDub talk/read what you guys write I feel so much better and can get through my day easier as the days go by, thank you so much.

Comment from Roxin
June 20, 2010 at 8:24 am

hmmm… it really makes sense! I got a lot of thinking to do now. Thank you very much!

Comment from ThomasTrumen
June 20, 2010 at 2:05 pm

Hi Ashley!

Thanks for letting me know that i am able to make you feel better.

Just make sure you tell your friends….

Comment from Pat
June 20, 2010 at 7:40 pm

Thomas, I’ve been a nervous and crazy wreck since my break-up. This first video is already giving me a TON of confidence that I might be able to pull this off. Can’t wait to e-mail you and hopefully get a response. Cannot express how greatful I am for FREE info on this subject. Can’t wait to keep being educated on this by you!

Comment from tony
June 21, 2010 at 1:41 pm

hey man your great everytime i get depressed i watch ur videos and they always give me hope and make me feel better thank.

Comment from Chris
June 25, 2010 at 2:10 pm

This video helps alot, this program is great, i recommend it to everyone who is going through a hard break up. Thanks Thomas.

Comment from Joshua
June 26, 2010 at 1:29 pm

This video is absolutely fantastic. Everytime I’m not sure I can get her back I just watch this video again. Thanks Thomas!

Comment from A
June 26, 2010 at 9:01 pm

I feel the calmest I have since I found out my ex is seeing another woman a few weeks ago. I honestly thought that his seeing her would ruin our chances of getting back together, and started to panic. Thank you for bringing me back down to earth

Comment from Haydz
July 2, 2010 at 8:39 pm

Thanks Thomas

Comment from ciaran
July 4, 2010 at 4:29 pm

thought the magic of making up was a scam at first…but tried anyhow and it really does work….read everything and wen i listen to wat you say it sounds exactly like what im doing…and have done…feeling better bout using the system already getting more confidence in it day by day

Comment from P
July 10, 2010 at 6:02 pm

Thanks Thomas, you’re a nice person to share all this advice.

Comment from Soph
July 16, 2010 at 5:52 pm

Hi Thomas!
Thankyou so much for this site! My ex broke up with me a moth and a half ago and I have been desperately trying to get him back with few results. He’ll talk to me and then something will go wrong and its back to square one. But I see whats going wrong here now, thanks to you!
Just watching your video made me feel better and more confident that I will get him back or at least get back on the dating track!
I do have one question: Since the break up, I have been contacting him nearly everyday so there has not been a “no contact period” yet, but you are saying that I need to only contact him 4 to 6 weeks after the break up, so my question is do I start the “no contact period” now and will it still work?
Thankyou so so much for your help x

Comment from ThomasTrumen
July 16, 2010 at 7:15 pm

Yes!

You still have to put no/limited contact rule into action.

Comment from jon
July 17, 2010 at 2:06 pm

hey tom

broke up with my girl a week ago n its been tearing me apart inside but since i started watching ur vids n stuff its starting to get better so thanks for that just hope this really works

jon

Comment from Christie
July 23, 2010 at 5:19 pm

I can’t believe how much this has boosted my confidence. The video is great and I feel like I really know what to do now. I was going in and out of the panic stage, I’d be okay for a few days and then suddenly couldn’t sleep, I’d just go to bed and cry randomly. Now I feel utterly confident and every day is easy to get through because I just think to myself “this is more time for him to miss me.” It’s already been a month since the breakup and I already blew it at the beginning, confessed undying love etc, but we were still able to start being friends again… but now I have initiated the no contact period since you say it is absolutely necessary. Anyway it’s only been two days and he’s already called me to ask what’s up, what my away messages mean… lol. Anyway I kept the conversation below 5 minutes and said “I’m just really happy! But I gotta go.” It looks like it’s working just like you said and it’s only been 2 days of no contact after I already majorly messed up at the beginning. I think I am lucky because we’re already friends again so he obviously cares, and I feel like doing the no contact thing now is good because he’s more open to thinking about me and because I need him to get over all the “undying love/apologizing for everything” I did initially. Anyway am I right or is my reasoning completely off. lol Anyway thank you again for the wonderful guide and videos, you have given me the ability to sleep at night.

Comment from Anonymous
July 28, 2010 at 9:04 pm

Thank you for your advice. It helped put ease the fears of the possibilities of moving on and so forth…or at least put a better perspective on it all. I suppose it falls into the same lines as the adage, “If it is meant to be, it will be.”

Comment from Armin
July 29, 2010 at 2:13 am

Hey Thomas your guide is really awesome.I have just begin to follow the guide.I send the second chance letter and it showed awesome results.First my ex wanted to talk again.She responded and than just a day after she rang my phone.She never did that first.Thx i did never get advice for relationship’s before so good as your guide is.

Comment from anupriya
August 1, 2010 at 12:29 pm

hey this is so great.. i only feel negative about the whole breakup but now i feel so much better knowing there is a way to fix all this..

Comment from perkz
August 4, 2010 at 7:34 pm

hey thomas great stuff i m still a little nervous
but will put all the info to wrok thanks again

Comment from Mary
August 9, 2010 at 9:36 pm

I wish I found this sooner. I was so sad and desperate and found a video that tld me to send that 2nd chance letter to my ex right at that moment, it was less than 2 weeks into the break up and was willing to do anything, it didn’t tell me how long I should wait. As a result: Nothing:( and its well been over a month…… I hope I still have a chance though and didn’t completley ruin everything….. This is really good stuff by the way. Just need help fixing up my mistake. I hope you can help me Thomas. and I thank you in advance

Comment from ThomasTrumen
August 9, 2010 at 11:33 pm

Hi Mary

Your fine just disregard what you did and continue with the plan i lay before you in the videos.

Comment from mel
August 13, 2010 at 7:59 am

hey you are a really genius.. you did good job i wanna be you friend much love mel <3

Comment from ThomasTrumen
August 13, 2010 at 11:28 am

Your welcome!

Now do what i tell you…lol

Comment from Vic
August 15, 2010 at 5:19 pm

Thomas you are so amazing getting people through such a hard time, your already helping me so much watching your videos reading your words lets me know there is hope for my relationship and not just getting back together but making it a better and more loving relationship than it was before.

I think your lovely and I want all the best for your relationship seeing all the people you have helped with there’s.

You and T Dub are an inspiration to all broken hearts

Comment from Laurence
August 18, 2010 at 9:20 pm

thanks thomas! this video was really helpful.i wish i had this advice earlier…its been 3 and a half months since my break up and i am worried.

Comment from Iris
August 19, 2010 at 3:52 am

wow!!! thank you thomas!!!

i learned soo much already!!! i just wished i knew wat i did the first break up we had?

to be honest thomas, i believe i have insomnia and cannot really sleep at night and it sucks , mostly because i am frustrated about my situation to have my ex to like me again, do u know how i can sleep easier at night?

ur videos did help me sleep easier, but still i get nervous and sleep mostly day time, need to fix sleeping schedule!!!

Comment from Libby
August 21, 2010 at 8:43 am

Thank you, Thomas, for sending this video to me! I really wish I’d have known of this wonderful advice months back. I have learnt so much already, thanks to your words! I feel much calmer than I had been, and now much more positive!

Comment from Lilly
August 22, 2010 at 10:49 pm

Thomas! I just want to say that all your videos are very helpful for me…Thank you so much for your time and your effort of putting this thing together. Since I receive your email, I have become more confident in myself and being able to think logically.Once again, thank you so much!!!

Comment from ThomasTrumen
August 25, 2010 at 9:14 am

HI Lilly

It is good to hear that you are learning a lot from everything.
Also, thanks for the compliments.

Comment from Serena
September 10, 2010 at 4:53 pm

Hi Thomas!

Thank you so much for your video and Q&A Guide. You addressed all my questions, especially the part about what to do since my ex and I have the same friends. Thank you for also reminding me that I have to be different from the person that I was during the breakup. I want to thank you and T.W. Jackson for helping me and so many other people during a rough patch in our lives.

Comment from Armando
September 21, 2010 at 3:42 pm

thanks for the video it really helped to give me hope

Comment from MC
October 8, 2010 at 8:55 am

Thomas I can’t get the Q & A guide, when i clicked the link a new page opens but it’s all black. I tried it so many times and still not working pls help me. I’am really desperate now and i need to read or watch anything from you. tnx!

Comment from Eric
October 8, 2010 at 1:05 pm

my wife left me after 22 years and i never saw it comming. thank you for your help
i am still freeking out over this and your videos are helping me think

Comment from ThomasTrumen
October 8, 2010 at 3:22 pm

I am going to email you the link, ok.

You will get it in a email from me

Comment from Jennifer
November 16, 2010 at 1:34 pm

Thomas! You are like my little angel sitting on my shoulder.

When I have a question about how to act, what to say, I ask the Thomas Truman in my head.

My situation is a little different in that its not quite my ex, but a guy that I dated a few times. He initiated it, and then he also halted it, although he says he is still attracted to me.

So I patiently utilize your tips to create a pull. It is amazing how giving him space has appeared to stir more interest. Thank you. Not to sound too crazy, but you’re kinda like my god ha ha.
I love getting your videos.

I remember in one of them you mentioned a way to touch the person that would let you know they were open to more… can you remind me which video that is in, or tell me more about that?

Thank you so much friend. I wish you the best.

I also agree you should have some way for people to just donate money to you cause when I end up in love with this dude, I’m going to send you some cash

Comment from jessica
November 21, 2010 at 1:56 am

THE VIDEO WAS REAL GOOD ME AND MY EX and my gf were together for two years and out the blue we broke up and lost contact. Now its at the point to whether I even want her back. But the video was good..

Comment from Alanna
December 20, 2010 at 5:34 pm

Hi, I have got the Magic of Making up and have got the free bonus guide. It is really helping me get through this hard time and all the video’s you are sending are brilliant. Keep it up. x.

Comment from liam
January 1, 2011 at 9:44 am

thanks Thomas it has been helpful to get your advice on things.

Comment from Julia
January 1, 2011 at 3:57 pm

Finding all this really useful! Gives me something to focus on, thank you

Comment from Chris
January 1, 2011 at 7:41 pm

After watching a couple of your videos (at least once a day everyday) I feel really calm lately, as I’m really confident that we will get back together eventually. The no contact period does hurt, it hurts to wake up every morning but by motivating myself to better myself by working out, reading, meeting new people, it takes the pain away and makes me realize I can do anything when I put my mind to it.

These videos, working on bettering myself, really made me an overall positive person, so much so, that I aced an interview in a job/field that I could have only dreamed of before (Finance) because I thought I was not good enough.

23 more days to make it a month since I told her I was OK with the break up.

Can’t wait to see the look on her face when she see’s the new me in a few weeks

Comment from Helen
January 12, 2011 at 4:26 pm

Thanks so much Thomas. I completely blew every single rule straight after the break up, even let him stay three nights. I felt like complete crap 24/7. Now that I have bought TW’s ebook and am watching your videos I feel calm for the first time in six weeks. I simply did not know this advice. I’m so glad that you do what you do and help people like me to feel confident again. Once again….. thank you

Comment from ash
January 20, 2011 at 2:25 am

thank yo thomas this makes me feel better

Comment from qstar
January 24, 2011 at 10:46 am

Thanks! You have been great help! I feel much much better about everything now !

Comment from Maryanne
January 25, 2011 at 7:53 am

Hey Thomas,
I would give a thumbs up to all the I ve watched so far has really given me the drive to believe that I will benefit in time to come when my relationship with my ex will be fruitful once again (:

Comment from rawr
January 27, 2011 at 2:06 pm

wow man this all makes a lot of sense.

Comment from KO
February 1, 2011 at 9:02 pm

Hi Thomas!
Great video and I see there are many others who are saying the same thing as me!
Mehn you’re the best!!

*thumbs up*

Comment from Jeremy
February 9, 2011 at 11:30 am

Thomas
This video was very informative, it will help me alot.I really enjoyed it especially since you explain everything in the simplest ways.

Comment from Joe
February 13, 2011 at 9:52 am

hey thomas thanks a lot man this is really helping me out a lot and giving me a positive outlook when i’ve been struggling to get to grips with everything that has happened

Comment from Sujin
February 21, 2011 at 10:01 pm

Hi Thomas,
Your video really calm me down. Thank you very much!

Comment from kristin
February 26, 2011 at 11:25 am

really helpful i appreciate!!!

Comment from Amber
March 31, 2011 at 11:21 pm

Hi Thomas,
Thank you so much for sending me this video! I really do appreciate it! It has helped calm me down a little bit and answered a few of my questions. Thank you again!!

Comment from Yla
April 1, 2011 at 3:50 pm

Thanks Thomas,

The video is very helpful

Comment from Robin Sandberg
April 26, 2011 at 8:44 pm

Great video!!!!!!! Really helpful!

Comment from Marty
July 17, 2011 at 6:04 pm

Heey thomas i have learned sooo much from you! thank you for sharing this
so basically if i follow the steps you have told i have a pretty good chance of getting my ex girlfriend back right?

Comment from dylan
July 18, 2011 at 5:12 am

wow man youre amazing… your theory is really brilliant and i can see its gonna help me big time .

Comment from Andrew
July 19, 2011 at 9:09 am

P.S. I plan on buying the magic of making up very soon, this stuff is complete gold

Comment from Kelly
August 16, 2011 at 4:16 pm

Great video, very informative. Answered all of my questions and concerns and really gives me hope that my ex and I can eventually get back together. I can’t wait to start reading the guide!

Comment from Veronika
August 20, 2011 at 6:48 am

Thanks for this video its really good knowing that there is someone there to help, we forget so much when we feel upset and thank you for remindning it, hopefully this works and i get him back keep it up looking forward to more videos and info

Comment from Vicky
August 21, 2011 at 11:26 am

Thanks so much Thomas, i was a wreck until i started listening to your video’s and guides. I now understand everything more about what happened to my relationship, and i am feeling alot better and more determined then i ever have in my life. I look forward to hearing more of what you have to say. Thank you again

Comment from Denise
September 7, 2011 at 5:57 am

Thanks Thomas…Right On Target And So Direct !!!!